Dating Russian girls is not like dating girls of any other nationality. Today when most girls are more interested in quickly passing through the dating stage, getting married and then starting a career for themselves, Russian girls are more interested in carrying out meaningful relationships with their men.
If you are lucky enough to be dating a Russian girl, you must be alert enough to pick up all the signals that the girl is indeed interested in you. There are many signals here, but the first sign is the telephone! Yes, this universally applicable channel of romance works even when you are dating Russian girls. Even though you meet often, call up the girl often. With her responses, you will be able to judge what she actually means and wants.
With physical correspondence like letters and even emails, Russian girls get time to formulate their own answers. But not so with direct telephonic conversations. Russian women are not manipulative; they cannot come up with sugary sweet responses at the moment. So, with a spontaneous telephone conversation, you will be able to assess what really is in the girl’s heart. If she has good feelings for you, she will love to keep talking, and will not find excuses to end her conversations early.
But there could be some problems that you need to appreciate. Many Russian girls will not like talking over the telephone especially if they live in small homes where their conversations could be overheard by their family members. If your girl lives in such a household, do not intimidate her with talks over the phone. Just ask her out. When dating Russian girls too, you can fathom their heart’s desires and see what they actually want. And, you will be able to talk much better, since the girl will not be scared about her parents overhearing.
All Russian girls are very closely bonded with their families. They have great affection and respect for the elders in their homes. For them, an ideal man would only be one who would be comfortable with their families. So, you will have to work at this. A time will come when the Russian girl you are dating will want you to meet her parents. You have to work up to this. Then, once the formal introductory meeting is done with, whenever you call at the girl’s place, her parents may talk with you too. This is the time when you should be courtesy personified. Language could be a barrier, but the ebullience in your voice should win them over.
On the day you are visiting the Russian girl you have been dating in her home, you must make plans of living somewhere near her house as long as you are there. Do not count on being invited to stay inside her house, at least not until you are married. Make some hotel arrangements. Gossip will follow when the girl’s people will see you both together, but that will eventually convert into warm camaraderie. You might even get invited to have some vodka with the girl’s father, and the women of the house, including the girl’s mother will be cooking up pirogs for you in their quaint kitchens.
If this scene looks all too cozy and inviting to you, you must know that you will have to work hard for it. Russian women are the fantasies of many men, but it is not all that easy to get them. Dating Russian girls requires perseverance and patience.
But, with all this patience, the Russian girl you are dating and her family will understand that you do care for her. And they will entrust you their cherished daughter to look after for your entire life.